"I want to see my grandchild's face." "Are you married yet?" It became uncomfortable, and eventually, I said: "I am dating someone with a view towards marriage." I thought this would help me calm down a bit, but this time, a storm of reminders came, "Take me to see her quickly," "When will you take me?" This kind of thing... the only person I can ask is him. "Wife... can I borrow him for a night?"